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[중앙일보 인터뷰] 박상회 국제인재교류진흥원장(2010/06/24)

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[기사 원문] <a href="https://news.joins.com/article/4265077">https://news.joins.com/article/4265077</a> <center style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><img style="background: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 12px; vertical-align: middle;" src="https://pds.joins.com/news/component/htmlphoto_mmdata/201006/htm_20100624003856l000l800-001.JPG"></center><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; float: none; display: inline !important; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;">　공부가 즐거워서 하는 학생이 과연 몇이나 될까. 대다수 학생들에게 공부란 해야 하니까 마지못해 하는 고역스러운 일일뿐이다. 국제인재교류진흥원 박상회 원장은 “가정에서 부모가 공부에 대한 잘못된 인식을 심어줘 즐거워야 할 학창시절을 괴롭고 고통스럽게 보내는 학생들이 많다”고 말했다. 어떻게 하면 공부를 즐겁고 편안하게 느낄 수 있는지 박 원장에게 들어봤다.<br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><div class="ab_subtitle" style="background: none; border-width: 0px 0px 0px 4px; margin: 27px 40px 27px 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; clear: both; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; border-left-color: rgb(60, 62, 64); border-left-style: solid; float: left; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><h2 style="background: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 12px; vertical-align: baseline;"><p style="background: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 24px; outline: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; top: -2px; color: rgb(60, 62, 64); line-height: 28px; letter-spacing: -0.07em; font-size: 17px; font-weight: bold; vertical-align: baseline; position: relative;">공부는 항상 즐겁고 편안하게 아이에게 꿈을 그릴 시간을 줘야</h2></div><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><b style="background: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; word-spacing: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;">-공부를 놀이처럼 즐겁게 느끼는 게 가능한일인가<br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; float: none; display: inline !important; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;">　물론이죠. 사실 공부 자체는 즐거운 일입니다. 몰랐던 것을 새로 알게 되는 과정에서 느끼는 희열은 이루 말할 수 없을 정도죠. 공부가 싫고 지겨운 이유는 자신이 궁금하고 알고 싶어 하기 전에 주변에서 우격다짐으로 정보를 밀어 넣어 주기 때문입니다.<br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; float: none; display: inline !important; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;">　공부할 준비가 돼 있지 않은 상황에서 강압적으로 쏟아부어주는 정보를 주워 담기에 바쁘다면 결코 즐거울 수 없습니다. 먼저 아이가 뭘 알고 싶어 하는지, 어떤 분야에 관심이 있는지부터 살펴본 다음 공부를 통해 그것들을 성취해가는 기쁨을 느끼게 해줘야 합니다.<br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; float: none; display: inline !important; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;">　<br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><b style="background: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; word-spacing: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;">-가정에서 흔히 하는 실수는 어떤 것들이 있나요<br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; float: none; display: inline !important; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;">　크게 두 가지를 꼽을 수 있어요. 하나는 공부에 대한 충분한 동기부여를 생략한 채 결과에만 집착하는 거죠. 가령 영어 공부를 시작하기 전에 아이에게 박지성 선수의 영어 인터뷰나 가수 비가 영어로 수상소감을 발표하는 영상을 보여주는 겁니다. 부모는 영어를 공부하면 세계인들 앞에서 자신의 생각을 멋지게 얘기할 수 있다는 사실을 알려주고 영어에 대한 관심을 높여야 합니다. 이런 동기부여가 제대로 이뤄진다면 공부는 아이가 스스로 알아서 하게 됩니다.<br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; float: none; display: inline !important; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;">　두번째는 아이가 부모의 바람을 대리만족시켜줄 거라는 잘못된 믿음입니다. 부모가 못해본 것, 아쉬움으로 남아 있는 것을 아이에게 강요는 거죠. 실제로 많은 가정에서 이런 일로 갈등이 벌어지고 있습니다.<br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; float: none; display: inline !important; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;">　<br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><b style="background: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; word-spacing: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;">-공부에 대한 인식이 잘못 심어지면 어떤 문제가 생기나<br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; float: none; display: inline !important; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;">　우리 뇌에는 벌계와 보수계라는 신경영역이 있습니다. 벌계는 불쾌감이나 슬픔을 느끼는 신경영역이죠. 벌계가 지속적으로 자극을 받게 되면 스트레스가 쌓여 결국 병에 걸리게 됩니다. 보수계는 쾌감과 기쁨을 느끼는 영역입니다. 공부가 싫어지면 공부를 떠올릴 때마다 벌계가 자극을 받게 되죠. 공부하라는 말을 들을 때마다 괴롭고 짜증나고 심지어 실제로<br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; float: none; display: inline !important; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;">몸이 아프게 되기도 하죠. 공부에 대한 인식을 바꾸는 것은 벌계에서 보수계로 영역 이동을 하는 겁니다. 보수계가 자극을 받게 되면 공부하는 게 즐겁고 몸도 건강해지게 되는 거죠.<br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; float: none; display: inline !important; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;">　<br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><b style="background: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; word-spacing: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;">-공부 때문에 힘들어 하는 자녀를 둔 부모에게 꼭 해주고 싶은 조언은 <span style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; float: none; display: inline !important; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;">아이에게 먼저 꿈을 그릴 수 있는 시간을 주라는 말을 꼭 하고 싶습니다. 꿈이 없다면 독서나 체험 등 다양한 방법으로 꿈을 찾을 수 있게 도와주기만 하면 부모의 할 일을 다 한 겁니다. 아이 스스로 자신의 꿈을 구체화하고 그 꿈을 이루고 싶은 열정을 채워넣었을 때가 공부를 시작할 적기인 셈입니다. ‘공부하라’는 잔소리 대신‘뭐가 되고 싶니’라고 자상하게 물어봐 주시기 바랍니다.<br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; float: none; display: inline !important; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;">▷ 박상회 박사는…<br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; float: none; display: inline !important; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;">·도쿄대 의학박사·일본인정건강심리카운셀러<br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; float: none; display: inline !important; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;">·도쿄대 의학부 객원연구원<br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; float: none; display: inline !important; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;">·일본 후생노동성 국립정신보건연구소 연구원<br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; float: none; display: inline !important; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;">·국제인재교류진흥원 원장<br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; float: none; display: inline !important; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;">[사진설명] 박상회 박사는 “부모가 아이에게 좋은 성적을 기대하기 전에 공부는 즐거운 것이라는 인식을 심어주는 게 먼저다”라고 강조했다.<br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; orphans: 2; widows: 2; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;"><br style="color: rgb(60, 62, 64); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: Tahoma, Dotum, 돋움, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; 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